Even though this blog is intended to be a place for men to talk about how they're doing following the death of an infant, I want women to feel free to ask questions that might help them better understand their husband/partner. Sometimes just knowing that the reactions they are seeing are not necessarily unique, helps moms be able to be a little more patient and willing to approach their communication a little differently. I look forward to hearing from you.
I bought your pamphlet after our twins died over a year ago. Out of everything we read, my husband felt that your words were the ones that most spoke to him. Thank you for putting out something- small, simple, and meaningful- for dads who are not only dealing with the feelings of their wives, but also suffer their own, unique grief.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Michele ... I am really glad that "A Guide For Fathers" was helpful to your husband. It was written purely from the standpoint of recalling what information I wish I had access to. Thanks for taking the time to write!
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