tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307820868878885515.post6407451192137586491..comments2024-03-01T02:19:18.084-06:00Comments on A Blog for Father's When a Baby Dies: It's Fall -- here we go again?Tim Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12615798128570788047noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307820868878885515.post-83506767567691899322011-02-06T06:43:10.021-06:002011-02-06T06:43:10.021-06:00Hi Tim, hi everybody. Many greetings from Germany,...Hi Tim, hi everybody. Many greetings from Germany, many greetings from Europe. Thank you, Tim, for this blog, we couldn´t stop reading it. Dimitry, I feel sorry about you and you wife. You must have a hard time, and you propably still have. <br />We lost our fouth child, a girl we baptised "Valentina" due to anencephaly on 13th of January. She died in my arms, only 35 h after birth. 35 h in definetely enough to miss her now.<br />FrancisPaps-o-valentinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14097331838759849175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307820868878885515.post-42301601419983411002011-01-13T12:55:49.222-06:002011-01-13T12:55:49.222-06:00It's hard to feel grateful for anything when y...It's hard to feel grateful for anything when you are hurting, but I think it is helpful for all of us to remind ourselves of the good in our lives. I wish you the best and am here to help if there is anything I can do. Sharing this poem was wonderful and I am sure the author (I was told it is Eileen Knight Hagemeister)is grateful that her words were healing for you, and undoubtedly others.Tim Nelsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12615798128570788047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307820868878885515.post-31972821261043009282011-01-12T23:32:40.248-06:002011-01-12T23:32:40.248-06:00Hi Tim
I just found your blog and everything you w...Hi Tim<br />I just found your blog and everything you wright touched me. My wife and I had a still born daughter at 39 weeks with no indication of any problems. November 6, 2010 so for me its way to fresh and still hard to believe it happened. I found a poem that some one wrote.<br />A Father's Grief<br /><br />It must be very difficult<br />To be a man in grief,<br />Since "men don't cry"<br />and "men are strong"<br />No tears can bring relief.<br /><br />It must be very difficult<br />To stand up to the test,<br />And field the calls and visitors<br />So she can get some rest.<br /><br />They always ask if she's all right<br />And what she's going through.<br />But seldom take his hand and ask,<br />"My friend, but how are you?"<br /><br />He hears her crying in the night<br />And thinks his heart will break.<br />He dries her tears and comforts her,<br />But "stays strong" for her sake.<br /><br />It must be very difficult<br />To start each day anew.<br />And try to be so very brave-<br />He lost his baby too.<br /><br />Author Unknown<br /><br />I thought you can post it on your blog if some people have not read it.<br /><br />But I totally get the triggers for me because its so fresh it everything. I thank "God", hard to do in its self. That I have a 5 year old daughter. Right now that is the only thing that's helping me.Dmitryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12306681215041810974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307820868878885515.post-11095156969982115332010-12-22T23:48:06.974-06:002010-12-22T23:48:06.974-06:00I needed to read other parents stories of survival...I needed to read other parents stories of survival after my toddler died. Mine is available here http://www.settlepetal.com/products/After-Your-Child-Dies-eJournal.html <br />I know you will find the strength to reach a depth to life that only some of us ever do.Jan Murrayhttp://www.settlepetal.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307820868878885515.post-83523661477793153772010-10-10T14:00:34.782-05:002010-10-10T14:00:34.782-05:00Hi Matt --
I am very sorry to hear about your son...Hi Matt --<br /><br />I am very sorry to hear about your son. I can only imagine the shock and sadness you and your wife must be feeling. I hope you will find comments on this and other blogs that will help you through this time. Do stay in touch and know that if there is anything I can do to make it any easier, I am more than willing. I'm sure that I am speaking for many other dads who have been there, as well. Take care.Tim Nelsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12615798128570788047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307820868878885515.post-47560245958469609552010-10-10T13:37:56.328-05:002010-10-10T13:37:56.328-05:00I just found your blog :) My wife and I just found...I just found your blog :) My wife and I just found out this week that our baby boy who is 22 weeks old will not be able to survive outside his mamma's belly. We are both in total shock over the devastating news. I'm so happy to find a space to communicate with other people that have experienced a loss....<br /><br />thank you Tim :)mattnoreply@blogger.com