tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307820868878885515.post7272629809539806005..comments2024-03-01T02:19:18.084-06:00Comments on A Blog for Father's When a Baby Dies: Brings back memories....Tim Nelsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12615798128570788047noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307820868878885515.post-9468443001034272102009-03-08T14:55:00.000-05:002009-03-08T14:55:00.000-05:00Hi Matt -- thanks for taking the time to post your...Hi Matt -- thanks for taking the time to post your comments. You are very fortunate to be in a relationship where you and your wife can be open to taking care of yourselves individually and as a couple. You are right, it becomes a conscious decision at some point to take that step. For some, unfortunately, it takes a while to be able to see that. If you are willing, I think it would be helpful to share with other dads some of what you and your wife have done to keep the lines of communication open. If there have been setbacks or tough moments, how did you work through it? Are you going to a support group?<BR/><BR/>You have a lot of hope to offer, so please share your thoughts if that feels OK to you. Thanks again for writing -- and best of luck to you both.Timhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11629298340713939684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307820868878885515.post-15119368483777730532009-03-06T23:56:00.000-06:002009-03-06T23:56:00.000-06:00My wife and i have become even closer since the de...My wife and i have become even closer since the death of our daughter, we realized soon after that we could go down a few different paths and most of them were not good, we consciously chose to hold each other up and go down the path of love for each other. There was no blame and only openness. This doesn't mean that there weren't and aren't difficult times only that we chose to see this love for our daughter as a unifier not a seperater.Matthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15061531665553034098noreply@blogger.com